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DISCLAIMER .. I am Choosy ! Are you responsible and genuine because if you aren't - DONT BOTHER READING ANYTHING MORE ! I've now got to the state that if there are decent ladies out there - let me know if you exist . What I am looking for is an emotionally mature lady who is looking for , hopefully , a long term relationship .
Are you interesting enough to keep my attention for more than 15 mins and able to hold an intelligent conversation ? Lets face it , being boring is a disease , and there's an epidemic about . Are you confident enough about your feelings to become involved in a stable relationship , and weather the ups and downs ? Do you feel able to resolve difficulties by discussion , rather than running away ? Of course women see things from a different perspective , thats what makes you so attractive to us men , but have you got the committment to a relationship, to work through problems ? Can you deal with you feelings and those of your man in a mature and respectful way ? Up until now I have found the answer to be generally no .Are you smart enough to realise that men have emotions also , and these too , need to be respected ? If you can honestly answer YES then please READ ON , if not , cheerio and good luck :-

I'm a fairly successful man with a sharp sense of humour looking for a lively , interesting , genuine lady to make his life even better . At present I am in a position , which may involve a lot of travel over the next few years , so stability and committment to the relationship is essential .

I am a sincere person and expect the same in others . I always have some project on the go about which I am passionate and believe there is much more to life than just work . Being confident and "comfortable in my own skin" is what I try to aim for - and if I don't succeed - well - I've learned something , and there's always another time .I like challenges and am intrigued by what people can achieve if they really want to believe in something . Very adventurous and keen on seeing a lot more of the world in the near future - so I'm keen on photography and can read a map .

Feeling happy and that I've done the best in any situation is what I aim for in life and am an eternal optimist . If you feel your glass is "half empty" my advice is to go and top it up with a bit of laughter . If you are a lady who is capable of holding an intelligent conversation and being able to feel at ease in any company then you might interest me . I think appearance and dress sense is very important when out so can you look cool , hot and sassy ? Looking one's best in any situation is very important .

Ladies with NO pride in their appearance STOP at this point please .

Ladies with self esteem , who like live music and travel ( preferably exploring ) have a sense of adventure and can dance to the different beats of the tune of life are the ones I want to meet . If you can't laugh at life or just take it too seriously - look for someone else . Musical tastes are very varied but I really love live gigs no matter how small as I enjoy spotting bands who just might make it . (Managed this with U2 and Snow Patrol). Am so keen on music that I play guitars when I can .

PS - If you're a time waster don't do it with me - I value myself and my time far too highly as I live a busy and adventurous life and am planning several breaks from routine to reward myself for the life I have been living recently . Have had experience of several ladies lying to me and using me - so they were not too grown up !! People like that I DO NOT NEED so if you're a bullshitter or a user - or a freeloader - do both of us a favour and pass on by . If your'e that type there's plenty out there like yourself - go find them - but NOT ME .

My ideal partner would be:
Intelligent with a sense of their own security as I don't want to spend my time making up for things which have gone wrong for them . Go listen to Neill Adamson's "Shattered Cross" and see if you tick those boxes and if so - pass on by . Must be able to enjoy watching rainbows in between showers .Compassion , caring , emotional honesty , humour and flexibility are all traits which I admire in a woman . My ideal lady takes pride in her appearance , whether dressed up or casual and does so because she has self respect . I thought I had met a lady like this some time ago but piece by piece she "unticked" a lot of the boxes , so I am free again , and optimistic that there is a very special lady just waiting out there .

My ideal date would be:
somewhere ininteresting and different but at a pinch coffee & buns
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I love to talk to anyone
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Have lots of friends
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I've had several relationships
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5ft 6in - 5ft 9in (1.68m - 1.76m)
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Masters Degree
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