I'm a tall, reasonably good looking guy who is very loyal and, though I hate the expression 'new man', I deplore sexism, racism and homophobia. But I'm not deeply earnest, I have a very good sense of humour and have performed stand-up comedy in a previous life.

Brains and a sense of humour more important than appearance. Someone with a social conscience but who knows how to laugh. Shape/size/age all irrelevant.