Hello! Well this internet dating is all very 21st century but seems to be the thang at the moment. I am black, 5' 7 and a bit, quite tall for a female, slim but womanly, attractive and very feminine. I have a very dry sense of humour, articulate, intelligent, independent and level headed. My personality is vivacious and vibrant, forthright and honest. I am divorced and have one child. Are you still reading or have you logged off? No? Ok, my interests are the performing arts (classical music and ballet, theatre) reading; usually girlie comedies, going to the gym, tennis, cooking for company and gardening. The usual bar/club scene and socialising with friends.

Found that it's very difficult to meet people, actually near on impossible. Being a single working parent is hard going but a relationship shouldn't be a substitute for having or wanting a relationship. Also, as lovely as they are, I would like a Valentines card from a grown up and not just my child!

Would love to meet an interesting, intelligent, kind, gentle and caring man. Solvent, independant and generous. Someone who can make me laugh, evoke good conversation and generally good company to be in. Honesty and reliability are key ideals.

Physically attractive and masculine in stature and build, tall; I'm 5' 10" in heels so a man 6' or over would be nice - I like to feel womanly next to a man and not like the Honey Monster!

So, have you got the inclination and time? Do you feel that a relationship needs to be maintained nurtured and cherished in order for it to be a success? If so I would love to hear from you.

One of two things can happen with this - nothing or something!